Aunti Says

Certified Assertiveness Coach & Author

“No wonder you can’t find yourself. . .

you’re too busy looking for somebody else!”

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Change Your Life

When we allow ourselves to stay stuck in our frustrating current job or relationship, it could be because we think “they” will take care of us. Yet, why don’t we feel good about it? Because your source is within – and sometimes it’s a challenge to look inside at the why’s and how’s.

You are so tired of being bossed around, pushed over, denied what you deserve and want.

Yet, asking for even the simplest desire puts pressure in your head, a racing heart and worse, a dry mouth you can’t even utter the words, “What the hell – here I am!”

One-on-one Assertiveness Coaching – Assertiveness: How to ask to for what you need, not only for what you want.

You could find out what hinders your journey forward in 45 minutes. . .


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2 Month Gold: A Perfect Life

It was the first day of spring in chilly Northern Alberta, the kind of day we expect, sunny, temperatures rising, and pussy willows budding. I was looking at winter in the rear view mirror.

I had just finished a glorious coaching call and was about to make myself a humongous salad for lunch when the phone rang.

“I was about to leave a message. What the hell are you doing home. All the time?” my close girl friend asked, sounding not really that surprised.

“And yet you guys go camping, travelling, have money galore, and you’re at home? No kids, no pets, no responsibility except yourselves? How do you do it? Just what do you do?”

That’s when I knew I was living my “Perfect Life!”

Here’s how you can have it too . . . in just 2 months . . .

Platinum Self-Reliance

Do you ever wonder how some people have everything they want? Some people seem to be so lucky? Everything comes to them?

Did you think this happens automatically?

No. . .

People who are successful and happy are assertive. They ask for what they want; most of the time, they get it.

How about you? Ready to develop self-reliance that will knock their and your socks off!?  In just 6 months. . .

What People Are Saying

“Lighthouse Vision!”
“I don’t think I have told you that you are my lighthouse….helping me find my way back each time I wander and I appreciate all the positive energy and wisdom you always radiate my way. Thank you for being there for me! When I am having an off day and need to get re-energized, re-focused, re-ignited….you are the beacon that lights my solutions!”


President/CEO & Life/Success Coach

“Coach To The Entrepreneur!”
“What comes to mind for me is the clearing you did for me. And the awareness you brought me. WOW…Something I had said out loud repeatedly was what was holding me back and I didn’t even know it. Yet you picked up on it immediately. So that story I told myself for years is now a closed book thanks to you! ”



“Even From The Other End of the World!”
“Patricia was so insightful when I had a session with her the other day. Not only did she give tough love and told me some truths about how I was handling a situation, she did so in a warm and compassionate way… AND she predicted the outcome of what I was worrying about with amazing accuracy. PLUS I was given further support after the session. All this whilst I was in my office in Australia and she was in her home town in Canada. Perfect and amaaaazing!”

Margaret Saunders

Harmonizing Energy Coach


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  Hey how are you?   Happy March!   March is the third month of the year, which has 31 days, and is named after Mars, the Roman god of war.   In the spirit of the Mars, the god of war, I’m gifting you some of my time to wage war on some life issues... read more

Why do we Think We Need Others so Much?

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Practical Suggestions to Build Self-Esteem

Why is self-esteem such an elusive bugger? Sometimes we feel good, but sometimes we fail ourselves especially in the presence of others. Here are six suggestions to rebuild your self-esteem: Engage in activities that give you satisfaction but that do not involve being... read more

How To Make Strangers Your Friends

  I have a proposition for you. Would you like to guest post here on my website? I would love it if you could consider writing an article, oh about 400 words or so, running it by me, and I’d consider sending it through my list and social media channels. If you’re... read more

Row Row Row Your Boat Wildly Down the Passive Income Stream

When I created my adult colouring books, I had full intentions of them going block buster huge on Amazon and eventually in bookstores. Because I self-published, the marketing process was 100% my responsibility and I must admit, it took a lot of effort to move that big... read more

Have You a Systematic or Wack-A-Mole Business Style?

  “Happiness is not found the control we have over others. It’s found in the control we have over the moment-to-moment trajectory of our own lives, and more exactly – here we get to the root of things – the control of the personal systems that are... read more

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